<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post1970622080000024082..comments</id><updated>2009-04-06T23:28:17.364-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Mothers in Medicine: No, Mom, Billy DOESN'T want to stay for dinner</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/feeds/1970622080000024082/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html'/><author><name>KC</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02114277144629595998</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>12</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-2278280801802706222</id><published>2009-04-06T23:28:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-06T23:28:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Hey, I found a restaurant where such conversation ...</title><content type='html'>Hey, I found a restaurant where such conversation would be more than appropriate: &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;http://tinyurl.com/dxs65l</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/2278280801802706222'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/2278280801802706222'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html?showComment=1239074880000#c2278280801802706222' title=''/><author><name>FreshMD</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-1970622080000024082' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/posts/default/1970622080000024082' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-4889996869971105219</id><published>2009-04-01T18:07:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-01T18:07:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Coming to supper after a day in the OR my conversa...</title><content type='html'>Coming to supper after a day in the OR my conversation leaned toward the latest event there. More than a few times, my 4 kids would say "Just ONE meal, Mom!"</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/4889996869971105219'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/4889996869971105219'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html?showComment=1238623620000#c4889996869971105219' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-1970622080000024082' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/posts/default/1970622080000024082' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-2685364266891172628</id><published>2009-03-30T17:20:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-30T17:20:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>BRILLIANT and HILARIOUS because so TRUE!!!!  Thank...</title><content type='html'>BRILLIANT and HILARIOUS because so TRUE!!!!  Thanks for a great post.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/2685364266891172628'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/2685364266891172628'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html?showComment=1238448000000#c2685364266891172628' title=''/><author><name>T</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01868356563355386773</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-1970622080000024082' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/posts/default/1970622080000024082' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-6529730130329112849</id><published>2009-03-30T11:45:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-30T11:45:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Ah, pathology at the dinner table.  It brings back...</title><content type='html'>Ah, pathology at the dinner table.  It brings back such wonderful memories....</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/6529730130329112849'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/6529730130329112849'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html?showComment=1238427900000#c6529730130329112849' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-1970622080000024082' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/posts/default/1970622080000024082' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-7329315172645898785</id><published>2009-03-30T10:09:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-30T10:09:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Thanks for the laugh on this Monday Morning!!</title><content type='html'>Thanks for the laugh on this Monday Morning!!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/7329315172645898785'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/7329315172645898785'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html?showComment=1238422140000#c7329315172645898785' title=''/><author><name>Dreaming again</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15717590226520457326</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-1970622080000024082' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/posts/default/1970622080000024082' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-2004342193253613052</id><published>2009-03-30T02:04:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-30T02:04:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>My husband is an intensivist, and I used to work a...</title><content type='html'>My husband is an intensivist, and I used to work at the VA.  We would talk about patients dying on a regular basis during dinner.  We finally realized our son was picking up on our conversations when he began telling people that his "brother" (imaginary friend) had died.  He was truly surprised at the responses he would get.  I can only imagine what he'll be telling his therapist about us in 20yrs.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/2004342193253613052'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/2004342193253613052'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html?showComment=1238393040000#c2004342193253613052' title=''/><author><name>The Mommy Doc</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-1970622080000024082' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/posts/default/1970622080000024082' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-1882165559757886082</id><published>2009-03-30T00:50:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-30T00:50:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I've had to have my partner give the occasional nu...</title><content type='html'>I've had to have my partner give the occasional nudge that I've strayed from "generally acceptable dinner conversation" to "generally acceptable dinner conversation when surrounded by other sex workers and sex worker allies".</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/1882165559757886082'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/1882165559757886082'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html?showComment=1238388600000#c1882165559757886082' title=''/><author><name>hexy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12189529529520498603</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-1970622080000024082' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/posts/default/1970622080000024082' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-8411927936762053572</id><published>2009-03-30T00:49:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-30T00:49:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I clearly remember discussing gross lab with a lab...</title><content type='html'>I clearly remember discussing gross lab with a lab partner wherever we went after lab on Friday afternoons in first year. We actually had someone from a table next to us at a restaurant ask us to stop talking about it. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;And then there was the time I brought a placenta home so I could bring it to class and my spouse asked, innocently, what was in the bag in the vegetable drawer (from which I had removed all the veggies, at least). I had wrapped it in a chux and then triple bagged it and written a note that said "YUK!" on the outside just to keep him out of it, but he just had to ask. He was not amused.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/8411927936762053572'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/8411927936762053572'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html?showComment=1238388540000#c8411927936762053572' title=''/><author><name>Lizard</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01718844284081950852</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-1970622080000024082' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/posts/default/1970622080000024082' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-1996551585438402261</id><published>2009-03-29T22:27:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-29T22:27:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Hilarious.  Growing up in a medical family and now...</title><content type='html'>Hilarious.  Growing up in a medical family and now having my own, this is exactly what dinner is like.  It is only when we have company that I realize how inappropriate certain things are to discuss at the dinner table.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/1996551585438402261'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/1996551585438402261'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html?showComment=1238380020000#c1996551585438402261' title=''/><author><name>Katherine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03111672135619695024</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='14633437922610383063'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-1970622080000024082' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/posts/default/1970622080000024082' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-2689581047943000461</id><published>2009-03-29T19:08:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-29T19:08:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>My kids use to complain about the medical journals...</title><content type='html'>My kids use to complain about the medical journals with yucky pictures on the coffee table....</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/2689581047943000461'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/2689581047943000461'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html?showComment=1238368080000#c2689581047943000461' title=''/><author><name>mamadoc</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-1970622080000024082' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/posts/default/1970622080000024082' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-5807317239888357298</id><published>2009-03-29T16:58:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-29T16:58:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I grew up with a respiratory therapist and a nurse...</title><content type='html'>I grew up with a respiratory therapist and a nurse.  We couldn't get through a meal without discussing chunky sputum or placentas.  It made me strong.  Tell your kids to appreciate their traumatic childhood now...they certainly will later.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/5807317239888357298'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/5807317239888357298'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html?showComment=1238360280000#c5807317239888357298' title=''/><author><name>Fat Doctor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09672076019531106668</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='00072830341479399941'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-1970622080000024082' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/posts/default/1970622080000024082' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-8047318622397981982</id><published>2009-03-29T16:44:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-29T16:44:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>At least you aren't casually mentioning vaginas, a...</title><content type='html'>At least you aren't casually mentioning vaginas, as I find myself often doing.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/8047318622397981982'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/1970622080000024082/comments/default/8047318622397981982'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html?showComment=1238359440000#c8047318622397981982' title=''/><author><name>Margaret Polaneczky, MD (aka TBTAM)</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16555722791007332247</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.mothersinmedicine.com/2009/03/no-mom-billy-doesnt-want-to-stay-for.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2919631102243889689.post-1970622080000024082' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2919631102243889689/posts/default/1970622080000024082' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>